Ladies, when we really take time to “Listen” to what they are saying verbally and not saying through their actions, that’s when we can truly understand the heart of a man.
It’s amazing to listen to or even read the heartfelt genuine thoughts from your spouse or partner. Being put on bedrest and admitted to the hospital I’ve learned over these past few days that sometimes we have to refocus our own thoughts and feelings to really hear the sincere thoughts and feelings of another. It’s no doubt that the two of us have been stressed by our pregnancy. And with the onset of more medical issues with me carrying the baby, it has made life more complicated.
What’s amazing is that as a women we really don’t sometimes fully comprehend the full extent and burden that the men in our lives deal with daily. Work, family life balance and pregnancy can take a toll on anyone, but the possibly of a serious illness of someone you Love can change the game.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not sick or dying, but the medical opinions from doctors can cause sometimes immediate panic especially when we just never know how the other person may take the news. My mother said to me a few days ago, “We as women are often the backbone to our relationship and have to be able to pull it all together.” So what does that mean, well we have to stop, think and listen when were upset, and then stop for a moment and reevaluate. Sheldon and I have been together almost three years and after this week, I think I truly understand the heart of my Love. I was a bit upset at first that he took to the Internet to express his feelings through writing, but if this is the outlet he needs, I would rather him do that, then keep it in.
Needless to say, communication comes in all forms and any of those forms can lead us back to our true understanding and purpose of our relationship. Love, adoration and respect. Ladies, when we really take time to “Listen” to what they are saying verbally and not saying through their actions, that’s when we can truly understand the heart of a man.
Pregnancy is a serious journey and should not be entered into lightly..it has its ups and downs, good and not so good days, but through it all we come out a blessing from above. So, Thank you baby for sharing your heart and know that I am going to be around a long time to raise our beautiful daughter and be an awesome wife to you!!
I love you!!
Please enjoy the thoughts of a man!!